Anorexia Recovery Binges: You don't have Binge Eating Disorder!

Anorexia Recovery Binges: You do NOT have Binge Eating Disorder! 19

When in recovery from a restrictive eating disorder such as Anorexia Nervosa or a subset of it, many of us experience something I like to refer to as “recovery binges.” This post is written from the point of view of a person who has recovered from Anorexia, but can be true for any person with any type of restrictive eating disorder.

Recovery Binge? Say What?

If you don’t know what is up with these, and if nobody has ever told you that they are even a “thing,” you will feel … devastated … if it happens.

I was the first time. I thought I was the only person in the entire world who had failed so badly at Anorexia recovery that I had morphed into Binge Eating Disorder in the first couple of weeks. I thought that my penance for even trying to recover was binge eating. I thought that what I had done was so wildly abnormal that it was a sign that I had been doing the right thing indeed by restricting so heavily because — well, look what happened when I tried to eat normally!

So I went back to restriction. And then when I ate, I binged again. And so then I restricted. etc etc. Hey-ho, the good old binge-restrict cycle.

I had to learn the very hard and long-winded way that the only way out of a binge-restrict cycle is to eat one’s way out. Literally.

Anyhow, here is why I think talking about, preparing people for, and not freaking out about recovery binges is a good idea.

What is a “recovery binge?”

I will start with what a recovery binge is not: It is not Binge Eating Disorder.

I was convinced that I had magically shifted from having Anorexia to having Binge Eating Disorder overnight. Recovery binge eating is a natural bodily response to starvation or semi-starvation. I know that you have all heard me harp on about the Minnesota Starvation Study in regards to overshoot, but it also shows us that after periods of starvation binge eating is normal. Because the men on that study binge ate when they were allowed free rein on eating again. And no, they did not go on to develop Binge Eating Disorder either.


Animal Studies

Recovery binges are not just a human thing. Animal studies show that animals who have been food restricted consequently increase their intake of food dramatically once allowed to eat again. Laboratory animals deprived of food for as few as two hours will consume significantly more calories upon the return of the food than animals that were not deprived.

In humans, strict dietary restraint and/or abstinence from eating forbidden, highly palatable foods have been shown to contribute to binge eating. However, in my opinion even the scientific research on this confuses recovery binges that follow restriction with binge eating disorder. As this paper here cites some great points, but doesn’t seem to adequately differentiate the too.

The reason that I bring this is up is not just to show that it is a normal response to starvation to binge in recovery, but more to dispels any misconceptions that recovery binges are “emotional eating” or that there is some greater psychological reason for it. I know that we cannot ask the rat; “Are you binge eating because Mrs Rat is mean to you at the weekends or is it because you are just really hungry?” But I’m going to go out on a limb here and assume that Mr. Rat is eating a ton because his body is telling him to make up for the starvation, not due to a deep rooted need for food to make up for the lack of real love and understanding in his life.


Evolution (kinda)

Okay look at it this way. My name is Joe Caveman and I haven’t eaten for three weeks. My friend, Jenny Caveman kills a buffalo (mad skills!) and suddenly there is a ton of food that if we don’t eat as much as we can now the wolves will steal from us.

Get it?

Your body has been deprived of adequate calories (and maybe you have been exercising too much too). It switches into “starvation” mode which is rather like hibernation. It wants to reduce your energy expenditure and because you have not been eating enough maybe it assumes there there is no food to be found (just like hibernation in winter) so it shuts off hunger signals for now.

Then, you start eating a little more (maybe someone put you on a meal plan or you increased your intake or reduced exercise. Your body is like “Hallelujah there is food!” “The famine must be over!” and “We need to eat ALL THE FOOD so that if famine comes again we can survive it.”

And that is all a recovery binge is. Your body being smart and doing what it needs to do to keep you alive. Before Tescos and Whole Foods, there was feast and famine cycles. The body, smart as it is, responds to those by reserving energy (starvation mode) in famine and cranking it up in feast. It also knows that in a famine time there is little point in sending hunger signals as no food is present anyway. This is why most of us once we have restricted food heavily for a while stop feeling hungry.

Then, then we eat a bit, we feel a tremendous (and ravenous) hunger as the body assumes that the famine is over, and it had better hurry up and feast on whatever food is going before the wolves eat it all. Now, I know there are no wolves now, and there is no famine in the 1st world, but your body doesn’t know that, does it? All the body knows is that you weren’t eating and now you are, so it wants to wake the hell up and make the most of the fact you are eating.

The Desert Example

I’m told that when people are dying of thirst in a desert, all they can do is think about and fantasize about water. They hallucinate water they are that obsessed with it. When we are starving our bodies, our brains do the same with food. When the person dying of thirst sees an oasis, she runs and jumps in and guzzles as much water as she can. And she might sit next to that oasis and do nothing but drink water for days and days after. But, after a while, she will spend less of the day drinking water. If that same person returns to a house with water on tap, she’s not going to spend the day obsessing over water any more. She doesn’t need to. She has enough of it.

When I was not eating fatty foods like cheese, butter, whole milk, burgers. I used to obsess over them. When in recovery I started to allow them, I ate them in a binge-like frenzy during recovery binges. But, once I learned that they were always going to be available to me — once I stopped restricting — they can now sit in the fridge and I don’t obsess over them. I can eat a piece of cheese without the urge to cram the whole block in my mouth. These delicious, fatty foods are just part of life for me now. Something I eat whenever I feel like it.

I don’t have to sit next to that oasis anymore.

But when I was restricting them, they literally were in my head all the time. Sleeping and waking. With food and water, the brain will fixate on the things that we don’t have enough of because it needs us to find and consume it. When you are weight restored and not restricting, your brain will move on. It won’t fixate anymore.

Lots of people in recovery think that the fact they are fixating on fatty or forbidden foods is because they have some wild uncontrollable version of Binge Eating Disorder. It really is not that. It is only because you are restricting food that you are obsessed with it. if you stop restricting, allow the recovery binges, and keep eating that food afterwards, your brain will over time, stop obsessing over food.


Here’s where most of us  go wrong:

Here is where I went very wrong. And the point of this, as with most things I write about, is that I am going to be very honest about the mistakes I made so hopefully you won’t have to. I stopped eating after a binge because it scared the shit out of me.

When I say I could eat the contents of my fridge in a recovery binge I am not  kidding. Other than the fruit and veg. Ironically, a recovery binge tends to have no interest in fruit and veg. It wants the milk and the cheese and the butter and the bread and all the cake. Then it wants all the chocolates in the cupboards, all the cereal (I could eat a box at a time) and all the peanut butter in the jar. Then it continues to scavenge. It wants the fat. It wants to eat fatty and sugary foods. Not the vegetables. This, is probably because my body is deprived of fats and my very intelligent body knew exactly what it needed.

However, my eating disorder was appalled. Horrified. How can you possibly need to eat ever again after you just ate all that food you fat pig it would scream.  And then, you cannot eat tomorrow. You cannot. If you eat tomorrow I’ll …

What? What would happen if I ate tomorrow? What would my eating disorder do to me?

Nothing. But I was to scared by the eating disorder’s tantrum to tempt anything. So the mistake I made, was the day after a binge I would restrict and not eat.

Really, really bad idea.

Now, what happens here if you freak out after a binge and stop eating again?

Your poor, confused body thinks that the famine has come back. It then shuts down a bit. Then, as soon as you open the door to food, it goes “YES! We’re off! Better cram in all that is humanly possible before the next famine again …”

And so on and so forth.

I went really wrong here. The recovery binge traumatized me the first time and I restricted. Don’t do that as it will not get you anywhere other than the binge-restrict loop of hell.


Here’s how I sorted myself out

I ate. I binged one night after restricting all day, and I woke up the next morning and I still ate my breakfast. I didn’t want to. I was scared to shit. But that binge-restrict cycle had lasted years for me and it was just not working out. I knew deep down I had to change something, and I knew that I had to stop restricting — no matter what happened.

The binges didn’t stop overnight. But they stopped really fast compared to the years I had spent trying to avoid and control them.  I have not binge eaten since. I do not and never did have Binge Eating Disorder. What I had, was a starved body that was desperate for food and needed to eat fatty foods. When I allowed it to eat it’s fill, and continued to do so day in day out, after a while it was satisfied, and my appetite returned to what it is now. A normal, healthy appetite.

What I did after a recovery binge:

  • Told myself “its okay, my body needed that food.”
  • Resumed my eating plan – i.e. did not skip meals or restrict afterwards. My binge time was always at night, so I would wake up in the morning and eat breakfast.


If you take one thing away from this blog, know this: Just because you binge eat in recovery doe not mean that you have binge eating disorder!

It is important that you understand that. Your eating disorder will try and torment you with that lie. Know it is not true. Know that the only reason you are binging and obsessing with food is because you have been restricting. Know that it will pass if you keep eating.

I am excited to announce that this week we launched Active Eating Disorder Recovery for Adults (AEDRA) Meal Support Service.

This is a worldwide service where any person can receive support at a mealtime to help overcome anxiety. We also have post meal support slots available for people who struggle with purging and post-meal anxiety. Binge Eating Disorder is also supported!

You can find out more about AEDRA here, and in the video below:

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About Tabitha Farrar

I work as Head of Marketing for a software startup in Boulder. As a recovered Anorexia sufferer, I advocate for proper understanding of eating disorders in my spare time. On that note, I wrote a book about my own journey into eating again called Love Fat.

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19 thoughts on “Anorexia Recovery Binges: You do NOT have Binge Eating Disorder!

  • GS

    This is really excellent advice. I cannot thank you enough for encouraging me to take those last steps to move beyond the ‘half life’. I have been able to stop binge eating in the last month by stopping the resultant restriction. I am, however, experiencing another issue – I’m waking up hungry at about 3am. It usually happens around 3 times a week and is really stuffing up my sleep. I do eat plenty in the evenings… is this something that you experienced or have heard of?

  • Lisa Miller

    Tabitha Farrar this is one of the most interesting and useful articles on recovery that I’ve read in some time (and I’ve read a ridiculously large number of them!) I’ve personally been through the exact same process of self-discovery as far as bingeing during recovery from anorexia. I have no doubt this article is gonna be shared all over the place! I’ve already emailed a copy to my dietician; I know she’ll love it and share it with her clients in PHP, as well as her outpatient clients. Thanks for sharing this!

  • Maddie

    Thank you so much for this article (and your others about weight restoration and overshooting, plus the article regarding weight gain primarily in your stomach region). I’m currently about a month into recovery and have been feeling very anxious because the bloating has not subsided – my dietitian thinks it could be lactose intolerance but abstaining from milk has not changed the weight distribution on my body, and your articles encourage me to continue eating and even aim for an overshoot. Additionally, my main anxiety recently has been developing BED – my ED is telling me clearly I wasn’t that sick if eating is so “easy” (because I’m eating now) and that the amounts of food I’m eating are ridiculous. Again, this article has helped calm some anxieties to hear the science as well as the personal experiences. One thing that has helped me is to try to be fascinated rather than scared – the fact that I can consume as much food as I do is pretty amazing. Additionally, knowing that my weight will redistribute from my stomach helps because I figure it is only going to get more comfortable as I lose my “pregnancy belly” as I call it. Thank you for sharing your story – you are so strong!

    • Maddie

      Also, my dietitian has introduced me to the “hunger fullness scale” and I find myself wanting to eat, although I’m not 100% fully hungry. I was wondering if you had any opinions about rating hunger/fullness in the beginning of anorexia recovery?

      • Tabitha Farrar Post author

        Mental hunger and physical hunger are different but in ED recovery you HAVE to respond to mental hunger by eating. The fullness scale can be chucked out the window in ED recovery. That may apply to the general population but not to a person with an eating disorder. Mental hunger is the one when you feel full but still want to eat more – it is important that you respond to mental hunger by eating more.

  • Rustagi_06

    Thanks a lot for ur advice and guidance!
    Well I sure needed it..
    I myself have been going through the same thing and for sometime was very confused of why I kept on switching between being an Anorexic and then suddenly a binge eater…
    I hope ur advice works…

  • Ericka

    Thank you for this. As I sit here and stew over an alcohol-infused binge I had last night. I am finally able to put myself in social settings again and enjoy drinks with friends but I still restrict during the day and then the mix of alcohol and restriction makes me gorge at night. I’m talking cake, chips and salsa, cookies, and everythingggggg. I know it’s part of my recovery process but I have such a fear that it will turn into BED.

  • Girl

    Hi Tabitha,
    I just want to thank you for putting this out there. I’ve been working on recovery for about two months now, and have put on ten pounds but still have about fifteen more to go to be at a healthy weight. In the last few weeks I have been going through binge eating issues. It has scared the ever living crap out of me, how could I possibly go from hardly being able to put a half of a tablespoon of peanut butter on my toast to eating an entire container of it in one sitting, it makes no sense. The craziest part is Ive Been able to literally eat thousands and thousands of calories in one sitting, and Not gain any weight from it at all. But I keep doing the wrong thing and then restricting the next day. My ed says you ate ten granola bars last night you certainly don’t need any carbs for the next week. But then I end up binging again. Your article has helped me realize that if I keep restricting my body will just keep overriding and going back to binging. I need to listen to my body and realize that it knows what it needs and it’s doing this for a reason. I’ve literally led myself to believe that I was usuing recovery as a way to be a glutinous pig. Not true, I suppressed my self for so long that my body can’t trust me anymore so it’s taken manners into its own hands. I wish this topic was discussed more openly in recovery it’s not something my nutritionist or therapist has ever brought up and I don’t bring it up because I’m so embarrassed and feel like I have lost control. I do have a question, how long did it take you to get past this phase in recovery? I am hoping that if I just stick to my meal plan and listen to my body that I’ll get past this.

  • Linda

    Alot of the people who posted here seemed to be very early into recovery from anorexia. I currently have been out of treatment for three years but still have periodic binges (although they may be what my previous therapists classified as controlled binges). Regardless, I still feel mentally awfully and physically uncomfortable. Is it normal to still have binges this long after coming of treatment or is this a sign that I have not fully recovered?

  • Antonieta Salas

    Thank you so much!, I was really scared i was falling into binge eating disorder. When my doctor told me that from now on i could eat whatever i wanted i decided to free myself and enjoy the foods that i had always deprived myself (mostly carbs and sugary stuff since i have pcos and insulin resistance), but now i feel disgusting and ashamed, i’m binging like 4 times a week when i feel like i can’t stop myself. I’m currently really far away from my family (I’ll be an exchange student for the next 4 months) and i feel most alone than ever. I’m really afraid i might fall onto another disorder that i won’t be able to cure before i get back with them.

  • Carolyn Triozzi

    I cried through this whole article. I was prepared to starve tomorrow and the rest of the day. I needed to hear that the extreme hunger is not a binge disorder. Gaining the weight is extremely painful for me and any anorexic. I still have a lot of therapy to help me not to see it that way. I have overshot what I consider a good weight for me by 11 pounds. That isn’t much but the fear of it going on and on is beyond frightening. I still hope my nutritionist can help me lose the weight during recovery so that I can see myself in a positive light instead of a negative one. It is making recovery a a punishment instead of a positive life changing goal. That is the anorexic talking and the mind doesn’t heal until it decides to heal. Instead of just letting it happen, I hope for that medium thin/thick to propel me into the new life of a healthy person. Is that even attainable after anorexia and bulimia, especially when my eating disorder put me at a normal weight?

  • Amy

    Wow did i need that!! I am not an active anorexic but i used to be and now my body weight is low because of a rare disease that i have. Anyways….i binged last night and i am very familiar with the recovery binges because of my previous boughts with anorexia but i did not apply it to my currant situation. Now i get it….regardless of the reason for the low body weight i believe last night was my body saying….”you are dying! EAT!!”. I felt such guilt this morning but now i feel much better! I will not try to restrict today –even though that old familiar voice is telling me I’m a fat pig. Lie lie lie! Thanks Tabitha! I really appreciate the wisdom!